I strive to stay hopeful and optimistic even when reality doesn't suggest that as a normal response to life. I have been challenging myself to see the good in situations even if they are not ideal. The climatic lesson of this summer has been that amidst God's blessing struggle can co-exist, and it is really the attitude we choose to embrace that will allow the goodness to rise above the sorrow. The truth is that there is rarely a time in life when everything is exactly as it should be, but that should not hinder the gratitude we carry in our hearts.
I believe a part of keeping an eternal perspective is acknowledging and appreciating the small joys in my life. That's something that we hear often, but how often do we actually apply it to how we live? That brings me to the topic of this blog - acts of kindness. Yesterday I was riding the bus into Portland for the first time, for most people probably a relatively minor happening, for me a rather nervous experience. I kept worrying that I would get off at the wrong stop or miss my transfer. About 3/4 into my bus adventure a lady sat down next to me. I kept looking at the time on my phone and then out the window. She smiled at me and asked me where I was getting off. I told her and explained that I needed to transfer to another bus line afterwards, she let me know that I still had awhile to go.
When we were approaching the stop she turned to me and said, "this is your stop" and then explained to me where I needed to walk to in order to catch my next bus. I never asked her for help, but she recognized my concern and was willing to put herself out there and offer her help. Not only did her kindness alleviate considerable stress of my "first inner city bus experience" (I'm ridiculous, right? :)), but it encouraged me to have faith in people. Was her gesture a big public display? No. Was it significant? Most definitely yes. Next time I see someone in a situation where they seem stressed or confused I hope that I have the courage to offer my help at the risk of being wrong or being negatively received. I hope you will too.
Kindness - it's the way to my heart. Thanks bus lady, wherever you are, you made a difference.
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